There are two, and only two, rational attitudes towards the Christmas season. One is P.G. Wodehouse’s: “It was December, and another Christmas was at our throats.” (I quote, accurately I hope, from memory). Whether it is the forced fellowship of most Christmas parties or just a sign of my descent into premature curmudgeondom, each year I find myself more and more of this persuasion, as soon as the Thanksgiving leftovers have disappeared.
The other attitude, which I wish I could say is more my own, may be best represented by a man criticized sometimes from the Jansenist/Sourpuss (to quote Pope Francis) chorus within the Christian persuasion:
The Christ-child lay on Mary’s lap,His hair was like a light.(O weary, weary were the world,But here is all aright).
G. K. Chesterton may have smoked, drank, laughed, and enjoyed himself more than a certain type of Catholic thinks seemly. At least he was enough of a Catholic that he never tried to argue that his own religious practice should become the rule for the whole Church: that we should, say, draw out particularly uncommunicative Trappists or tell abstemious Franciscans to lighten up a little. He performed the useful service of reminding us – us weary, adult Catholics – that joy and repose either are the very heart of our faith or we may have no true faith at all.
He also reminds us that joy is a true gift, not a brutally sentimental assault at brotherhood once every twelve months or something we earn during the rest of the year by exercise programs, self-improvement schemes, political reforms, or even religious practices. The various princes of this world – and especially the politicians and other demagogues in it – have a lot at stake in making us believe that they can devise technologies for putting real happiness within the reach of human hands. They know that even when such illusions fail, they can offer a new tonic, charge twice as much, and get an even bigger market share of the pursuit of happiness.
The Christian faith is quite different:
The Christ Child lay on Mary’s breast,His hair was like a star.(O stern and cunning are the kings,But here the true hearts are.)
Nativity by Francesco Londonino, 1750
The Christ Child lay on Mary’s heart,His hair was like a fire.(O weary, weary is the world,But here the world’s desire.)
The faith is such an odd turning of everything we might have expected upside-down, bringing down the high, raising the lowly, that it remains hard to take in, even after years of familiarity. Yet it draws the attention of the whole Creation:
The Christ-child stood at Mary’s kneeHis hair was like a crown,And all the flowers looked up at Him,And all the stars looked down.
I hope you do. Merry Christmas!